Having been on both sides of the dilemma, here's my thought process that went into the whole decision which took me about 19 weeks and 5 days to completely arrive at. Who doesn’t love a pro’s and cons list?
And now I'm curious, where are my other surprise mamas at? I want to hear your experience! Did you find out? Did you choose not to? Are my assumptions correct that you really can't regret your decision either way? Comment below what you might add or take away from the pro's and con's list.